Book Review: Developing Resilience
A Cognitive-Behavioural Approach (Routledge, 2009)
Michael Neenan
ISBN 041548068X
Reviewed by Donald Robertson
Resilience potentially exists within all of us. Focus upon resilience factors often means focusing upon our strengths instead of weaknesses in a way that helps us to anticipate problems and cope better with them when they happen. It’s a concept currently growing in popularity as it holds promise for the prevention of psychological problems, such as depression, at a collective level. Michael Neenan’s new book Developing Resilience: A Cognitive-Behavioural Approach provides a detailed overview and guide to the subject of resilience from an evidence-based perspective.
Neenan and Prof. Windy Dryden have provided a very thorough definition of “resilience”, which begins,
Resilience comprises a set of flexible cognitive, behavioural and emotional responses to acute or chronic adversities which can be unusual or commonplace. These responses can be learned and are within the grasp of everyone; resilience is not a rare quality given to a chosen few. While many factors affect the development of resilience, the most important one is the attitude you adopt to deal with adversity. Therefore attitude (meaning) is the heart of resilience.
This is a very enjoyable and easy book to read. It’s erudite, academically-informed, and draws upon a wealth of research-based knowledge and clinical experience but is written and laid out in a very accessible “self-help” style. It manages to be one of those books that will appeal both to therapists and their clients and I will no doubt be recommending it to psychotherapy clients, for whom “Developing Resilience” is often a very attractive concept. It’s also well-suited for coaching work, where, rather than psychopathology, the focus is mainly on strengths and coping with “everyday hassles.”
My own special area is classical philosophy and psychotherapy. According to Neenan “Attitude is the heart of resilience”, which accords with classical Greek and Roman Stoicism in its emphasis upon adopting a “philosophical” attitude toward adversity. Epictetus famously told his students, “People are not upset by events but rather their judgements about things”, which Neenan calls “the foundation of a resilient outlook.” It’s the basis of the modern “cognitive model” of emotional disturbance. Neenan tackles the common misconception that Stoicism means “suppression of emotion” at the start of the book and emphasises that the ancient Stoics merely recommended that unhealthy irrational emotions should be replaced by more healthy and adaptive ones.
Neenan also says, “Distinguish between what is within and outside your control”, echoing the famous Serenity Prayer. The central principle of Stoicism, with which the famous Handbook (Enchiridion) of Epictetus opens, was precisely the distinction between that which is within our control and that which is not. In the final analysis, Neenan and Epictetus point out, our judgements and intentions (attitudes and behaviour) are within our control more than external events and other people’s responses, etc., over which “fortune”, i.e., other factors, may intervene.
Neenan provides many real-life examples of resilience, most notably the story of Vice-Admiral James Stockdale, who said to himself “I’m now leaving my world and entering the world of Epictetus!” as he ejected from his crippled fighter plane over enemy territory at the outbreak of the Vietnam War. Stockdale was incarcerated and tortured for seven years by the North Vietnamese, during which time he relied heavily upon the Stoic teachings of Epictetus to cope with the exceptional adversity of his circumstances. He provides the ideal “case study” for cognitive therapists interested in resilience and coping with extreme adversity.
Neenan is mainly inspired by CBT, as the title suggests, and draws upon the Stoicism of Epictetus and the examples of famous individuals like James Stockdale, Victor Frankl, Hellen Keller and Nelson Mandella, etc. He also draws upon Rational-Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), the Positive Psychology of Seligman and others, research on Problem-Solving Therapy (PST), and other therapeutic approaches.
The chapters are entitled,
- What is resilience?
- Attitude: the heart of resilience
- Attitudes that undermine resilience building
- Making yourself more resilient
- Strengths underpinning resilience
- Resilience in the workplace
- Resilience in relationships
- Resilience in dealing with difficult people
- Maintaining resilience
- An overview of resilience
We could all do with increasing our resilience. Especially with so many people around the world facing tough times financially and in terms of their employment. This happens to be a concept that has recently “come of age” and this book is probably the best place to begin learning what modern psychology and cognitive therapy have to teach us about coping with adversity or just the everyday problems of living that we all face on an ongoing basis. Highly recommended.